hoochie kissers.

Here's the thing about boys: they constantly screw up what they really want for something they don't really want, but also don't care to say no to. And if that introductory statement was confusing to you, I'll attempt to clarify all confusion by sharing an example...

Boy loves girl. Girl loves boy. But girl is uncertain of boy's feelings for her. And boy, well, he's just not being patient. Or open. Or honest, I suppose. And so he runs around ruining all his chances with the girl that he really loves because he is just too afraid to man up and tell her how he feels. And instead, he uses his charm and his lovely smile to woo other, innocent and unsuspecting girls into loving him, and then he kisses them and runs. So here he is, kissing lots of girls, but wanting only one girl, while the one girl he loves is getting hurt by his nonsensical shenanigans, and therefore vows she will never allow herself to fall for him, which ultimately hurts him and causes him to go even crazier. So like, it's a mess, right? And if he'd just STOP long enough to tell the girl he loves that he loves her, then she'd love him back and everyone would be happy. Well, aside from the hearts of poor girls he broke along the way. 

Why do guys do that? Why do they love one girl, but yet allow themselves to live their lives smooching hoochies and breaking the hearts of innocent girls who were unaware of their selfish games, and not actually love the girl they love? Because guys are just as confused as girls are when it comes to love.

We're all crazy. 

and I hate it.

My advice? Don't love him until he's ready to love you the right way. It's not worth the heartache.